Making Successful Moves with Pets

Helpful Tips for Moving with Pets

I volunteer at an animal shelter and a frequent reason for owners surrendering their animals is they are moving, and they feel it is too difficult to take their pets. 

We always took our pets with us when we moved, so I needed help understanding the problem. So, I asked a group of military wives to assist me to determine if a “How To” article would help or if moving is an excuse to not have a pet. Most thought it was an excuse, but there were some valid points made for not taking pets on a move.  Below I provide I tips on how to move with an animal. 

I would like to extend a thank you to the Kings Bay Military Wives Group on Facebook for helping me with this article.

 We have made many moves with pets, so I thought I would share how we did it. I added some tips and links as well.

Moving with Pets

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Welcoming Pooky Home

My husband Michael and I got married when he was stationed at Pearl Harbor Navy Base.  It was my introduction to military life.  We had to wait until we moved to base housing, as our first apartment didn’t allow pets.

We went to the Humane Society in Honolulu and looked for our new dog.  We found this little guy who had just come in.  He came to the gate, but, wasn’t barking, he just wagged his tail shyly while cowering in the corner, terrified.  We went to the desk and they told us he had to stay on stray hold for a few more days, and we should call on the last day to see if he was still there.  We did, and he was. 

We named him Pooky after Garfield’s Teddy Bear.  Pooky was a love, he chewed on our stuff, he ran off from time to time, and had his own crazy character. But, mostly, he gave us so much love.

Tips for a successful move with pets

Our Move with Pooky

When it was time to move we arranged his travel with the airline and bought him a travel cage.  Did I mention that we had a baby eight months after we got him and is now a little over a year old?  Yes, we had a toddler, a dog and all our belongings.  We were going from Hawaii to Washington State, in November.

We made sure our hotel was pet friendly ,and we had gotten a referral to some old Navy housing that did accept pets. 

We got our household goods and unpacked, but it was the holidays and as typical military families do, we went to visit family for Thanksgiving.  The four of us, my husband, our son, Pooky and me were back on a plane for the visit.  That was our first move with a pet.

The next one came when we went from Washington to Georgia.  By this time, we had a toddler and a baby.  Given the personality of the boys and the length of the trip, we thought taking the dog in the car with us would be tough. We called the airlines, and for a small fee they would ship Pooky solo, if we had someone pick him up. Our family held onto him until we could get there.  

We enjoyed our Christmas with the family, but we then had to find a pet friendly place at our new base.  It was a brand-new base and there wasn’t much housing on or off base, and it was harder to rent with a pet, so we bought our first house.  That was Pooky’s last move with us, but he did take some trips.  When Pooky crossed the Rainbow Bridge we got our next shelter animal.  

We went to the base and found a sweet little girl named Snowy.  Snowy was a lively two-year-old Beagle mix. She was also a known runner and who could blame her, she was two and had already been passed between four families due to, you guessed it; moving. The poor girl had never known stability with a family. That effects animals as much as it would affect a child passed between foster homes.

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Our Journey with Snowy

A few years after we got Snowy it was time to move back to the West Coast.  This time my husband went ahead of us.  He found a temporary apartment that was pet friendly while we waited for our Navy housing to be ready.  Once in, we put up a fence for Snowy to have her own free space and took her on many trips in the car to see the mountains of Washington and the great Northwest. 

Our next move was when my husband retired from the Navy and we had to find civilian housing that was pet friendly.  It was more challenging, but we did it. 

When you get a pet, they are a part of your home and household and just as with any family member, you find a way to make the relationship work no matter what happens.  Advanced planning is essential.

We still travel a lot with our pets.  it is work but they are worth it.  To us, they are part of our family, a gilded member, and dogs as well as cats are social animals, they become part of a “pack”, whether human or of their own kind, and are loyal to that, and will protect it’s other members and they are affected as much by loss of that pack or any member of it, as much as you or I would be affected by the loss of a spouse or child, they feel that. 

Why do you think they are so happy when one returns from work, or a trip and they have been home alone, even if only for a few minutes?

Moving Tips with Pets

Below find some tips and links to help with making your trip or move with your pet less stressful:

Research your new location as soon as you know you will be moving.  You need to find out how the new home works for all the members of your family.  Schools and Doctors for the kids, employment for the adults, breed restrictions and veterinarians for the pets. 

If you find you are moving to an area where there are breed restrictions, you need to be aware of this before you go. (The ridiculousness of these rules is a whole other article.) Make sure where you live accepts the pet you have or will get, make sure your pet will fit into your living situation. A cat or a small dog will probably work better in a two-bedroom apartment with no yard rather than a Lab or Great Dane.  

These are simple steps that will help avoid heartache and headache.

At this point you may have to make some tough choices.  There are some circumstances under which it may be in the pet’s best interest to live with someone else rather than making the move. You may want to check out Pets for Patriots as a possible place for your pet.

I am not suggesting anyone shirk their responsibilities but putting a sixteen-year-old dog or cat into a long quarantine may not be in the pet’s best interest. We did rehome two animals for what we thought would be in their best interests. 

In both cases. we made sure they went to trustworthy families. The second one only lasted six months, and we got him back. Pooky was part Husky. They are runners, and when he kept running off we thought he would be happier at my parent’s house in the country.  My folks realized he missed us and brought him back, that was the last time we tried “re-homing.”

 It would be very hard on me, now, to find a new home for my pets, and I think I would prefer not to move if I couldn’t take my pets, they are our family and you don’t just abandon your family.  But the US military doesn’t always have that as an option, and when the orders have you going overseas you need to know and obey that county’s rules.  

Pets and PCS

The Trip Itself

For the trip itself this depends on whether you are driving or flying.  If you are flying, you will need to pick an airline that will allow your pets to fly with you. Find out the requirements and procedures and talk to your vet before the trip, they often prescribe a mild sedative you can give your pet before their flight to ease their anxiety.

You can imagine it’s very traumatic for them to be separated from people they know, trust, and love. Then they are trapped in a cage on a noisy, scary plane ride. Most people are nervous about flying, and we understand what is going on. Image what it’s like for the pet who has no idea what is going on!

I know we have had some horror stories in the news about airlines and lost pets.  Let’s remember, something only makes the news if it is unusual.  I believe most airlines get it right more than they do wrong. Here are a few airlines that take pets; these allow pets in the cabin.

If you are going by train, check the rules just as you would for the airline.  If you are traveling in the car with a pet, remember, they need a break just as you do. 

Plan to stop at places where they can safely stretch their legs and play, just like you would for the kids.  Rest areas have a place for pets and many hotels welcome your pet

Bring their familiar items like their crate or bed, some toys and treats.  These will make Max or Fluffy feel more at home. 

If you have a more unusual pet like a pig or a snake you will have to do a little more checking to see what hotels and rest areas allow. 

Owning pets is a privilege and a responsibility. You have a living friend that is close by and greets you at the door with enthusiasm, no matter what mood you are in or what you are dressed like. It is a relationship like no other.

They are here for a short time and trust me, when that friend leaves you miss them.  Make the effort to keep them for as long as you can, but if you must, also make sure they find a loving, safe new home.

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About the Author

Lisa lives with her retired US Navy Submariner husband in South Georgia. She is a former homeschool mom of two active boys who are now adults. She volunteers at an animal shelter.  She writes children’s educational books as well as articles for adults.

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The Secret to Coping with PTSD

PTSD Secret

Dogs are widely utilized to assist men and women who suffer from post traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD. There are a number of specific reasons why dogs can help heal a person afflicted with PTSD.

Dogs are Vigilant in Watching Over Their Owners

One of the reasons dogs can assist in coping with PTSD arises from the fact that they are truly vigilant. Researchers have concluded that the vigilance of a dog, in relationship to his or her owner, is akin to soldiers and the buddy system in the military.

PTSD secret

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A person who has a nightmare with a dog in the room can better appreciate the level of vigilance associated with a canine.

When a person wakes up from a nightmare, a dog provides cues and information to assure his or her owner was not experiencing something real.

Dogs can be helpful in this manner when it comes to assisting their owners suffering from the symptoms of PTSD.

A dog’s vigilance aids a person afflicted with post-traumatic stress in discerning what is a real issue and what is a symptom of the condition.

Dogs are Protective of Their Owners

Another attribute of dogs that contribute to their ability to aid in healing a person with PTSD is found in the fact that canines are highly protective of their owners.

Many dogs are literally inclined to fight to their very death if it meant protecting their owners from harm.

This type of protective behavior is highly beneficial to a person diagnosed with PTSD. The protective behavior of canines wards off perceived threats to an owner with post-traumatic stress.

Moreover, a person with this diagnosis is more confident to go about activities of daily living knowing he has a protective friend at his or her side.

PTSD Secret

Dogs Love Their Owners Unconditionally

A key problem many individuals with PTSD have is a perception that they are unloved. In addition, trust is a major issue for individuals diagnosed with PTSD.

Another one of the different reasons why dogs aid in healing a person afflicted with PTSD is the fact that canines love unconditionally.

A person with PTSD never has to question whether or not his or her canine companion loves him or her.

Further, a person with PTSD has a real difficult time maintaining, let alone establishing, loving relationships with other people.

A symptom of the condition is that individuals with PTSD perceive themselves as being unlovable. This line of negative thinking is discounted in the face of the devotion of a canine.

In addition, a dog is thoroughly trustworthy.

From this trust of a canine, a person with PTSD is able to begin building a foundation upon which he or she can start trusting fellow humans.

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Dogs Understand and Remember Feelings of Love

Another way in which a dog is helpful in healing PTSD is that they are not turncoats. This is associated with the unconditional love of a dog towards his owner.

The reality is that even the best behaved dog is not perfect. He or she will cause problems and need to be scolded.

With that noted, a dog does not hold grudges or stop caring for his or her owner merely because he has been disciplined for doing something wrong. In other words, a canine has the ability to understand he or she has made some sort of mistake.

But, a dog also remembers and maintains the feelings of love he or she has for his human — and that his human has in return.

Dogs Encourage an Owner to Get Out of the House

Many people with PTSD hole up at home. They fear and dread going out in public and limit their time away from home. A dog aids in healing a person with PTSD by making it easier for a person with that condition to get out of the house.

By getting out of the home with greater frequency, a person with PTSD is able to engage in positive activities. This includes interacting in a positive manner with other people.

Getting out of the home provides a person with PTSD with ever increasing control over his or her life, all because of the supportive assistance of a loving canine.

With increasing regularity, specially trained dogs are becoming key components in the lives of individuals with PTSD.

These canines truly provide a person with PTSD the support and security necessary to begin living a happier, healthier life.

In fact, even pooches lacking in special training can prove to be utterly invaluable to a person with PTSD.

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The Best Tips for Military Families at Disney

Disney on a Budget

Disney World is one of the most magical places on Earth. From the smells, the treats, the rides, the characters, and the smiling and friendly staff, Disney is a favorite vacation location for us.

Want to know how we did Disney in a week for less than $2,500 for a family of 4 (at the time it was 3 adults, both parents, a grandparent, and 1 child)? I will share my budget and tips for how we made amazing memories in the happiest place on earth!

We love Disney so much, my daughter and I have been 4x in the last two years with a combination of different family members and friends.

Disney on a Budget

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Buy Military Tickets

  • We bought Military Tickets through the ITT office at our local base. The great part of this was that we plugged this into the MyDisney app and were able to order our Magic Bands ahead of time.

This also let us choose our Fast Passes, which saves you major time.

You can get these tickets also at Shades of Green; however, if you are not staying there – plan to get there, park, go in, stand in line, buy tickets, etc.

I do not recommend this if you plan on going to the parks the first day you get there – as this is wasting valuable time.

You can also get military rates at the park, but you will pay taxes on it.

  • One exception is the Florida Resident Tickets.  If the member has a home of record in Florida, this can be a cheap option as well. 
Disney Tips on a Budget

Call Disney Reservations

We did not stay at Shades of Green.  We went during Spring Break – one of the busiest times of year.

They were completely booked. 

However, we still stayed on the grounds.

Staying on the grounds means you don’t have to pay for transportation or parking at the gate ($20 per park).

  • By calling Disney, they will give you military rates  (usually up to 40% depending on the class of hotel) on your stay. 

When you call, they will ask you if you prefer Value, Moderate, or Deluxe rooms and will find you the cheapest resort with availability. 

My daughter was into Disney movies at the time so we chose the Disney All-Star Movie Resort – we got it for less than a $100 a night (about $94).

On another note, we also stayed in Coronado Springs during our Christmas stay and got a great rate ($120) because they were doing construction – which we did not care because we were in the park.

They gave us these cool pins as well. If you, or child, collects pins – these were a fun addition that you can’t buy at the shops or kiosks.

Bonus Pins

Bring Your Own Food

  • When you can, bring your own food. We chose not to do the dining plan.

BUT, we still ate on the grounds every day.

We even had breakfast at Be Our Guest (the Beauty and the Beast themed restaurant), and several other quick service Disney restaurants.

However, this area we could save money by bringing food with us. We were within driving distance, so we could use this to our advantage.

We bought food from the store that we could supplement for snacks and mostly breakfast.

If your room has a full freezer/fridge – take advantage of frozen breakfast foods, for example.

Cereals, croissants, pastries, and bagels are great for some breakfast meals where you do not have to pay in the park.

  • We also brought tons of snacks in our backpacks (Sun Chips, packets of nuts, Motts gummies, really any snack food that doesn’t melt in the HOT Florida sun! This saved us from buying tons of ice cream, popcorn, and pretzels.

Bring a Backpack

  • A backpack can serve as a diaper bag for young children, but it also helps with older children too.

If they are old enough, they can carry their own string back pack (like this one).

  • We carried bottled water (we brought a case with us) in our backpack as bottled water is about $4.00 a bottle in the park (obviously, tap water is free, or go to Starbucks – they give you free water).

We stuck all of our snacks in there as well.

Backpacks are also a great place for holding ALL the things that will occupy your time in the long lines (should you go during a high season time).

Prepare for Lines, Heat, and Rain

Long lines in peak season means bored children. 

Many rides have entertaining features, but there are some that well, are less thrilling.

  • Bring things to occupy their time. 

We brought bubbles, stickers and a notebook, and a cheap digital camera.

  • It is hot in Florida – of course. You can fall victim to the heat. Be sure to pack sunscreen and these cool mini-spray fans. 

We each had one, which are powered on batteries – and could mist ourselves whenever, wherever.

  • Also prepare by bringing ponchos. Ponchos in Disney World are much more expensive. Get yours here.

It is Florida and can rain at any moment – be prepared for it! Usually when it rains, the parks clear out, so use that time to jump in line for rides.

Check out this Disney Crowd Calendar from Touring Plans here to help you plan.
Prepare for Rain

Disney Magic

  • To add to the experience, we packed Disney trinkets that we found at the Dollar Tree and Walmart (coloring books, figurines, stickers, stuffed animals like Minnie/Mickey).

This limits how much you buy in the parks – which will be way more expensive.

Each night after she went to bed, we stuck a Disney item out for her to find in the morning – starting the magic each morning.

If you are driving to Disney, you can find a lot of Disney items at the neighborhood Walmarts for a great price (collectibles, t-shirts, etc.).

Our Disney Budget

Hotel Stay – $94 per night for 5 nights = $470

Tickets through ITT – 5 days @ $984 or 4 days @ $904 for 3 adults, 1 child

Food – Lunch and dinner – $30 per person per day – $600

Character Dining Experience (Breakfast) – $140

Gifts (from home) – $20

Other incidentals (snacks, gifts, parent’s Starbucks) – $280 = 4 people at 5 days – $14 per person per day

Grand Total – $2,494

Can you spend more? Of course! Did we experience Disney on this budget? Most definitely! See some of my pro tips below!

Enchanted Tales with Belle

Other Fabulous Tips

Umbrella Strollers

If you have a child under 5 – it is ideal to have a stroller of some sort.  I have brought both of my strollers on different occasions.

Disney is HUGE.  That is a lot of walking, no matter how many times you go back to the hotel.

Your child will be whining, your arms, shoulders, and neck will hurt from picking them up. Trust me, stick them in it and everyone will be happy!

Buy a cheap $20 umbrella stroller and take it with you. 

It folds up on the buses if you stay on one of the many gorgeous properties, and when you have to do stroller parking – it takes up little room.

Not only that, but you can use it to reserve some space for the parades. 

Park Hopper Tickets

When you purchase your tickets – be sure to add Park Hopper. 

For Military tickets – it is usually included and well worth it. 

Sometimes you want to do Animal Kingdom in the mornings and Magic Kingdom at night.

Animal Kingdom is VERY WARM especially from about March to October.  So hitting it before peak sun is great.

Also, the animals tend to find shady parts to lie in during afternoon hours, which makes the Safari Ride not as enjoyable. 

But there are a lot of exhibits to see neat things – and of course, I hear the new Pandora area is fabulous.

FastPass Perks

Magic Bands & Fast Passes

See that orange band on my daughter above?

Those are Magic Bands. You can get them even with ITT tickets.

They are the best technology Disney has come up with. 

Your hotel room card, your Fast Pass, and your Credit Card can all be stored on this wristband.

You can select who has the Credit Card on their band (if you are worried there band may fall off).  However, we never had an issue (even with 3 year old wrists).

You don’t have to carry cash with you, they just touch the Mickey and it goes straight onto your hotel bill.

It also stores your Fast Passes – which you MUST do if you want to maximize your time.

Fast Pass reservations can be made up to 60 days in advance.

Popular rides (Peter Pan, Splash Mountain, Seven Dwarfs Mine Train, Space Mountain) go quick, so make sure to book them.

You can also book passes to see characters.

She loved seeing all the princesses and her favorite Disney Jr characters (they are at Hollywood Studios). 

Once you use your 3 Fast Passes you can get more that day (but generally, it is what is leftover).

Get the MyDisney App

If you have a Smartphone – you MUST have the MyDisney App.

Download it on every adult phone.

It has maps of the parks, wait times of every ride and character experience, times for the parades, and park hours.

You can also link your reservations so that you have access to your Fast Pass reservations.

Experience Disney During the Holidays

This is not a budget tip, but more of a confirmation if you are asking yourself this question. Should we do a special event?

Disney World has different special events throughout the year.

No-So-Scary Halloween

Very Merry Christmas Party

Star Wars Galactic Nights

We took a special trip last year to Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party.  It was an additional expense, but we loved it. 

You get in at 4pm and experience Magic Kingdom decorated for Christmas.

Why did we enjoy this?

Limited crowds – so lines were much shorter.

Free goodies.  They have the BEST Snickerdoodle cookies and hot chocolate. Seriously!

Characters are out in the park, and there is a short line to see them. 

Disney Springs has Christmas trees decorated with all the major movie themes.  Great to see them in the morning and go to the park in the evening.

Fireworks In Magic Kingdom

Best Fireworks Location

One of the best experiences at the Magic Kingdom is their nightly fireworks. 

However, it is BEYOND crowded.

Everyone crowds to main street or the circular area right in front of the castle about 30-45 minutes before it starts. 

However, we found a great area to see the fireworks as our own little secret (especially if you have seen the show before).

If you go to Adventureland, find the Swiss Family Treehouse.  The bottom has a great view as well as the top (and it was filled with 3 families) – much more enjoyable.

However, you don’t get to see Tinkerbell fly.

If you HAVE seen the fireworks – this is the time when the busiest rides have hardly any wait – take advantage.

Go to Epcot

I hear the question asked, “If we can’t do all of the parks, which one should we drop?”

Do not choose Epcot to drop – if you have small children. 

Here is why…

Epcot is filled with many countries – all with food and places to sit.  You know what kids love? FOOD!

Epcot Treats

Not only that, but there are some very fun rides at Epcot. 

The “Golf Ball” at Epcot was one of my daughter’s favorite rides – it is slow, but it takes them on a neat journey through time. 

You also have the Frozen ride, Soarin™, The Land – which you ride on a slow moving boat and see all the hydroponics and greenhouses they have, the boat in Mexico (with Donald Duck), Finding Nemo (and the aquarium after it), Fast Track, and Mission Space.  

If nothing else, hit it on it’s late hour days and do a 1/2 day with your Disney Park Hopper.

Epcot

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Kelsey Ramirez is a Real Estate Broker in western Washington. She is also a veteran elementary school teacher, military wife, and mom to two daughters.  She is the founder of The Military Move, a military-based website to help families in the PCS process. Kelsey loves to travel, write, and create amazing content.  She has her Masters in Technology, which she uses to learn all new things digital.

With three decades of military support, Kelsey’s mission is to help new and existing military families in their unique adventures through all military topics including PCSing, budgeting, school choice and rights, housing, and especially just being a military spouse.

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Tips When Traveling With Your Infant

Tips for Traveling Infants and Newborns
Infant and Baby Travel Tips

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of 1 Natural Way, a TRICARE breast pump provider. All opinions are entirely my own. If you have questions about my full disclosure, click here.

When I was 19, I traveled to Spain with my family for a family vacation.  The first leg was with my step-mother and two-year-old sister from Atlanta to England.  When we went to de-board the plane, my sister fell out right there in the aisle – full out wailing, and complete humiliation for me!

My stepmother walked right off the plane.

And there I was. Like a cat herder – railing it in.

If that is not natural birth control, I don’t know what is.

I vowed that I would do everything I could to have a plan with my own children. Yes, I know you are laughing because plans usually go out the window with children.

However, traveling seems to go smoother when we can plan – no matter what happens after that.

Luckily, I have traveled with both of my children as infants and luckily learned some things along the way.

Travel Tips for Infants and Babies

1. Have an FAA Approved Car Seat

If you are flying when traveling with a newborn or infant, you have two choices with the airlines, travel with the baby on your lap or purchase an extra seat. 

Now I know budgets are slim, but if you can – purchase the extra seat.  My father is a pilot, so I have traveled a lot.

Turbulence is unpredictable, and it can be very dangerous.  Just like there are crazy drivers, well there are crazy pockets of air up there.

If baby is secure in an FAA approved car seat, there is no worries that you or your spouse, or even big sister (like me), has to secure baby.

2. Wear Your Baby

Another great investment is a sling or baby carrier.  This gives you free hands to pull luggage, hold another child’s hand, or if you cannot buy an additional plane ticket – keep baby secure on you.

You can wear baby on an airplane, hiking, on a ferry ride, and on trains.  Baby wearing has become real popular, but actually is an old tradition in many cultures.

Many find that wearing their baby when they travel allows baby to be close to the heart, which helps them stay calm and sleep while in motion – mimicking that feeling in the womb.

My oldest daughter and I were in Disney for Christmas, and I saw so many moms wearing their babies.  This is a brilliant way to lose the stroller and keep baby close. 

I have tried several on, and must tell you to be sure to find one that supports your back and is breathable if you are traveling somewhere hot!

Infant and Baby Travel Tips

3. Travel with a Breast Pump

The best part about breastfeeding is the convenience – no heating or cooling bottles, or bottles period.

However, it is unsafe to take a baby out of it’s car seat during transit.

My husband was driving us from Orlando to South Georgia, and a car next to us slammed on his brakes causing several cars to react and wreak. 

In seconds, accidents can happen.  The safest thing to do is stop somewhere safe, or if necessary, feed the baby while he/she is secure with a bottle.  

Many airports have implemented breastfeeding rooms for you to feed/pump with privacy.  This would be a handy time to use it.

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It is that easy!

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4. Backpacks Make Great Baby Bags

So I had a great weekender bag with a cute purple pattern that I could fit all my baby stuff into (actually for both kids and myself).

However, after about..oh 8 trips, I was juggling a weekender bag on my shoulder, a baby on the other (or in my front carrier), trying to hold my other child’s hand, and rolling a suitcase. 

Just imagine that image – you have all seen THAT single mom traveling.

Yep, that was me!

Well, I am here to tell you that I purchased another beautiful turquoise and grey flowered backpack (just as cute), but it is SO much more functional. 

I can place all of my 5 year old’s extra clothes, all my 7 month old’s essentials, bottles, a book or tablet for me, a wristlet with my ID and credit cards, and my phone. No purse, no diaper bag – my handy dandy all-in-one bag.

Also, if you do, invest in one that has multiple compartments. To stay organized, of course.

Infant Travel Gear

5. Have a Baby Travel Kit

Besides packing for yourself and older children, be sure to pack a travel kit (in your backpack) for baby.

Include diapers, wipes, pacifiers (if used), bottles, your Tricare breast pump, breast cover for when it allows, baby blankets (I prefer Muslin ones), baby food and spoon, teethers, and some soft baby toys.

I usually pack all bottles and baby food in a small insulated lunch box with an ice pack to keep them chilled.

What you pack will depend on the age of your newborn or infant, but be sure to include extras until you can access your baggage.

This also helps if you are traveling by car, train, or ferry.

6. Travel with Bottles

Many moms choose to wear their babies.  However, many airlines expect you to take your baby out of the carrier for take-off and landing.

When you are flying, air pressure in the cabin changes during take-off and landing.

This can be irritable for babies ears.

While children and adults can chew gum, babies cannot.  This is why sucking on a nipple during these two events can help alleviate that problem.

Depending on the mom, it may be easier to provide your child with your pumped milk than trying to take off the carrier.

If your baby is a bottle drinker, try to time a bottle (even if it is a small one) around take-off and landing.

If your baby breastfeeds, that breast pump from 1 Natural Way will come in handy here since you will have a bottle ready that you or your spouse (or even big sister again) can feed.

This also helps if you have just fed recently but need baby to suck to prevent popping in the ears.

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Power of Attorney – 5 Reasons You Must Have One

Power of attorney

I can’t tell you how many times I have called a company to deal with my husband’s bills or handle something, and I get, “We can’t discuss that with you!” Sound familiar?

I handle everything in my household – EVERYTHING.  So that was a big issue for me.  Even if you don’t handle everything, there may come a day when your spouse is deployed or gone and you will need to manage things.

This is why you must make getting a Power of Attorney a TOP priority.

I will give you 5 reasons this is so important and how it can help your family.

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Power of Attorney - In Simple Terms

So what is a Power of Attorney?

It is a legal document that allows you to act on behalf of another person.  Both people are present when you apply for one, and you need a witness to sign as well.

Your base should have resources to have this done in under an hour (as well as witness for you).  Ours was done at our PSD office. However, you can download a PDF copy of one here.

There are TWO kinds – General and Special.

A general POA allows you to do most things.  However, some companies or banks want it spelled out.  This is where a special POA comes into play.  I have both.

A special POA spells out EXACTLY what can or cannot be done.  The person may wish that you can handle their bills, but not withdraw money or take out loans.  This gives you some access, but not all.

How much access you have all depends on the person granting the access – which is a serious conversation you should have. Here is some more in depth information to read up on should you want too.

Below are 5 reasons, or areas, on why you need one.

1. Mortgage or Rental Agreements

My situation is unique.  Our mortgage is only in my husband’s name, so they would never talk to me without his authorization.  When Hurricane Irma hit and we had damage, they would not speak to me about the insurance claims (which I am co-listed on).

When you get a specific POA, ensure that you can handle mortgage or rental agreements.  This means you can dispute and/or verify payments, claims, interest, property taxes, escrow, etc.

If you are in a rental, you may need to deal with the property management team if you are not listed on the lease (which can occur for engaged couples, those dating, even Newlyweds).

One of the biggest reasons – your spouse has to transfer, but you do not have a buyer yet on your house.  Well to keep your spouse from traveling back and forth for closings and such – you can add real estate transactions.

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2. Banking

My husband and I have been together for 11 years. He trusts me implicitly. He knows that my goals are for financial freedom, retirement, college tuition for our girls – basically, I am not going to frivolously spend all his money when he away.

If you and your significant other have the same goals, you may want to consider adding banking to your POA. I can take loans (which I hate, but can do) for let’s say a new vehicle if I had too, or repairs on our house that aren’t covered by insurance, etc.

I was even able to lower my husband’s interest rate on his credit card.

3. DEERS

Is your spouse deployed for the birth of your child? I hope not, but in the unfortunate case that he/she is, you will need to register your child in DEERS. Having this listed on your POA will help you add or enroll dependents as well Tricare.

4. Household Goods and Vehicles

One of worst things about moving is . . . well moving. When you have to PCS without your spouse, you need to be able to deal with shipping and receiving your stuff (including your vehicles).  You may also need to be the person to deal with claims on damaged or missing items to ensure you receive reimbursement.  Read the article on why I stalk my movers here.

Side note – To ship a vehicle, you must provide a VIN number and a location on your POA – to ship goods, they can put to any location.

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5. Military Housing

Unlike buying a house where you need attorneys and banks, military housing/quarters typically deals with the member.  Regardless if you are on the lease or not, they will want to speak with the member to accept and pay monthly allotments. In order to accept or decline, sign for housing, and possess the unit, I would include this.  It also allows you to speak with them about monthly allotments.

At many locations, housing is mandatory or requires a waiver to decline housing.  This is where this will be necessary if your significant other is deployed.

Power of Attorneys are important for military spouses as well as civilians.  There are specific types for whatever sector you are in – this covering military POAs specifically. 

Be sure to call all of the places you do business with before your spouse deploys to ensure they will accept your POA and that they do not have one of their own.

I recommend sitting down and discussing how and in what ways you can be more involved.

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The Complete Moving Guide

Complete Moving Guide

I have made several military moves in my lifetime.  From California to South Carolina, Maryland to Georgia, I have learned a few tricks along the way to create a quick and easy complete DIY guide. 

Moving can be one of the most stressful experiences for any person.  Whether you are doing it yourself or having help, there are countless things that are bound to…well drive you a little nuts. 

Even government moves can be stressful.  It really depends on what type of person you are and what you prefer.

Moving Stress Free Guides

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Getting Prepared

I love having a plan.  It helps me lower my stress and know just what I intend to do.  I have created a moving checklist and how-to guide to help any first-time or veteran mover.  You can download it by signing up below for FREE. 

I will also give you my FREE PCS Notebook Guide to show you all the important things that I keep together.  This has helped me complete all necessary things with our rentals/mortgage, registering for schools, bordering animals, and much more.

Moving Guide

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Another part of moving is making sure you have everything organized beside just your household goods.  You need to have your life basically organized so that when you travel to your new location, you are ready to go. 

Need to register the kids for school? No problem. Need to get your car insurance redirected? No issues. 

A few weeks ago, I had to go to the DMV to get a hard copy of my car title (since I like to have it on hand).  The lady was shocked at my PCS Binder and how organized I was – she even thanked me.

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PCS Comprehensive Checklist

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Government Moves

When you do a government move – ALWAYS do the counseling.  Either the active member or the spouse – do not skip this. 

“Why? I’m too busy!”

No, you’re not! Not for this! Make yourself available.

When you do a government move, you are giving them most if not all of your stuff.  Some may get damaged or lost, and you need to know the process to file a claim to get that started. 

You will have POC’s – point of contacts – you will need to save in your phone as well. It is a very detailed and drawn out process and can be the deciding point of how much money you receive.

I have an upcoming post on how to deal with government moves/movers in greater detail that you can check out.

DITY Moves

Are you doing a Do-IT-Yourself move?

Many service members like these moves because they can keep an eye on their stuff – keeping them in control.  Some believe they can do it cheaper than a full government move allowing them to make some money.

I have done both moves and both have their pros and cons.  Shoot me any questions you may have in the comments below.

We made a good amount of money on our DITY move and you can check out some of my tips here.

Tips for DIY Moves
Many service members like these moves because they can keep an eye on their stuff.

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How to Win Over Your In-Laws

In-law Tips

I see it all the time.  The countless posts about the “in-laws.” They don’t understand the military life. They don’t see their grown child enough.  They don’t see the grand babies enough.

But this is not just a military issue, this is actually quite common for all types of families.

Whatever the case is, the holidays is usually the time when family gets together.

Sometimes it’s awkward, sometimes tense, rarely glorious – but undoubtedly, it elicits some type of emotion.

So how do you get those in-laws to be excited for your visit to turn that awkward or tense to happy and joyous family time?

Get your in-laws to love you

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Bring a Gift

Bringing gifts often show that you took the time to think of them and is another way to thank them for having you and the family in your home.

And when you are first starting out, before babies, you definitely want to win over your significant other’s parents.

Some protective momma’s look at women as taking their boys from them and some dads look at all men as undeserving – you want to kill this from the start. 

Whether it be a bottle of her favorite wine, a framed picture of the kids, her favorite scented candle, or a six pack of his favorite beer – a small gift is an appreciative token. 

Whether it be a bottle of her favorite wine, a framed picture of the kids, her favorite scented candle, or a six pack of his favorite beer - a small gift is an appreciative token.

Chip In

The holidays bring big feasts, but any time of the year, this tip can be applied.

Show that you can get your hands dirty.  Ask to help in the kitchen by peeling potatoes, cutting vegetables, or even cleaning dishes.  My mother-in-law cooks and enjoys to cook.  However, I still ask to help with small tasks just to help out in some way. 

Watch sports with your father-in-law (my father loves this), or RV shows like my father-in-law likes.  Help him change the oil in his car or fix whatever he is fixing.

The idea is to just chip in some way to show you care.

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Compliment and Smile

Kill ’em with kindness.  Things have not always been easy with my own in-laws.  Those that have easy relationships with their in-laws from start to finish are lucky.

However, you can take this small amount of time to make your partner happy.

Find something to compliment – their new decor, the garden, a new haircut, the holiday scent in their house – anything. 

And regardless of how you feel, just smile.  Put differences aside and smile.  You will feel better, at least for a little while, for focusing on the positive.

You never know when your small actions may make a change from those tense moments to happy ones.

Win One Over

If all else fails, choose one (if you can), and win that one over. 

For women, it may be easier to win over the dad.

For men, mom’s may be easier.

Connect, get interested, share.  Show them why your loved one loves you.

Most likely, if you get one on your side, they will work on the other on your behalf. 

Connect, get interested, share. Show them why your loved one loves you.

I have been in those shoes.  We did not visit enough, I came off the wrong way, and things went horrible for a while.  However, it was not permanent. 

I found a way to let things go and slowly worked on building up my relationship again.  You CAN too!

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Get Baby to Sleep Like a Baby

Get Baby Sleeping

After having a 5 year old and no other children, you think to yourself how great a baby would be (and it is).

I can do this all over again, they are sweet and cute and cuddle-able…

Until you are weeks in with a newborn, remembering how sweet sleep used to be when you realize that you are not getting nearly enough.  Anyone with me on this one? Yes – A.S. and A.C. are exactly 5 years 1 week apart.  My first born – intelligent, sensitive, SLEEPING (well now, not then)…

Yep, forgot ALL about those early non-sleeping days.

But 10 weeks in, I have some tips that are working for us now that may work for you too!

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Routine is a Must

The first few weeks, you want to hold that baby and basically stop it from crying.  Many parents find that they are constantly holding their child (yes – I did, for about 6 weeks) to just appease them.

Remember, check diaper, check limbs (too cold or hot), have they eaten lately, and are they tired?

A.C. would fuss, and everyone wanted to stick a bottle in her mouth.  It drove me NUTS. She was clearly tired and fussing because she was so tired – kind of how you are crying at 2am and 4am because YOU are tired.

So it is easier to remember that babies are small children and research shows small children do best with routines.  So after all the research I did over many nights holding up my child (she has acid reflux so must be held up after each feeding), I found this, and it works!

Sleep, Eat, Wake – Repeat

Now this does not typically apply to the last feeding of the night.

However, give it a try.  When baby wakes – feed, play, and put to sleep.  And if you find that baby won’t sleep and he/she needs a feeding – go ahead and try the routine again next time.

Sleep, Eat, Wake - Repeat!

Sleep Routine is Even Bigger

My first child was very different from my second child.  After 16 weeks, she went in her crib for naps and bedtime and slept. 

Nope, not my second (already showing how different they are).  She slept for 10 minutes in her crib, and then came the screams.

Why? You guessed it – does anyone function on 10 minute naps? Well I don’t!

Babies need to differentiate between naps and night sleep. 

A.C. sleeps in her Rock-and-Sleep (get it here) during the day with her Muslin Swaddle (get it here). I am literally right next to her so I always move it from her mouth and nose (but she finds comfort with it). Many people place their child in this to sleep at night – but we feel it was best to have baby on a flat surface from all the research we did.

NEVER put a baby to sleep with blankets without DIRECT supervision (I mean eyes on them at all times, or right beside you and you not napping).

During the day, our television is on, A.S. is playing (on the weekends), the laundry machines are going – you get it…it’s noisy.  Not only that, it is very bright from the sun shining in the back door and windows. 

Sleeping Like a Baby

Night sleep is the complete opposite. 

Again, it goes back to having a routine.

Every night, around 7pm, we bathe A.C. in her First Years infant bath (get it here). She loves her bath time and we find this is the best time to administer any infant medication too. 

We then put her pajamas on and one of the assortment of Halo Swaddlers Sleepsacks (get it here).  Afterwards, we read both girls a book and then for A.C., she gets fed. After her last burp, we wrap the swaddle.

Newborn Sleep vs Infant Sleep

What? There is a difference?

Well in the world of bassinets, co-sleeping, cribs, etc. there can be.  Many new parents want their babies in the same room. Whether it is compulsively checking to make sure they are breathing (like most moms), or easy access to the baby, babies spend many nights in mom and dad’s room. Some choose a bassinet or Pack-and-Play next to the bed or straight to the crib. When my husband was gone on missions or standing duty – I was doing this all alone.

Tired and more tired – I needed something convenient and affordable. Enter my SwaddleMe Co-sleeper (get it here).  This was the best option because as you see in the picture – you can’t roll on baby, but he/she is right next to you.  So I just lift and feed or put the pacifier in her mouth all while still laying down.

This also worked wonders when I needed a nap. 

The Co-Sleeper will fit with one person in a Full/Queen sized bed or with two average-sized adults in a King (either between or on one side).

A.C. is 3 months, and she still fits in her co-sleeper; however we use it when we travel mostly now as she sleeps in her crib (except when she is sick). 

Co-Sleeper Can Be Your Best Friend

At 8 weeks, she made the transition from the bassinet (get it here) to her crib.  We have her crib in our room, which works perfectly for me.

Transitioning your child to his/her new bed can take some time.  So be patient if it does not work immediately.  We started everything at once as mommy needed SLEEP.

If you are putting your baby in a crib, be sure to remove all baby bumpers, blankets, and toys and only have a fitted sheet.  As cute as they are, they are suffocation hazards.

If you have baby in another room such as the nursery, I strongly recommend purchasing a baby monitor – I loved my old Motorola one so much it could not hold a charge after 3 years.

Baby Sleep Tips
Remove all baby bumpers, blankets, and toys and only have a fitted sheet.

Baby Sleep Gear

So what was the trick for our baby? Swaddling!

No, not swaddling in muslin blankets doing it the old-fashioned way – she broke out EVERY SINGLE TIME. We have another purpose for these.Muslin Swaddlers

Now, my favorite blanket is the muslin swaddle blankets, especially Cloud Island because they are big and soft.  These blankets are great because they are light weight and A.C. loves to snuggle them at nap time.  We use them for burp clothes, blankets, and over the stroller to block out sun. I have about 20 of these (no exaggeration).SleepsacksHalo Swaddle SleepsackSleepsacks

BUT, the best ever tool that we use is our Halo Swaddler Sleepsack (seen above) – they are such cute patterns.  More importantly, they kept A.C. from waking up from her startle reflex (the Moro reflex). They zip up the middle and then they velcro over.  Be sure to get yours here.

Let me preface, I did not use these with my first born (A.S.) and she slept for about 3-4 hours at time starting at a two months. Let’s just say that we have doubled that. 

We bought the 100% cotton ones.  They are more than some other brands, but I did not care when I saw my child sleeping. 

**Note – since she was missing a feeding, we started making up for it during the day.

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There you have it. Have a routine that works for you and your family. Also, invest in some baby gear that helps baby to stay asleep. Click on one of the links of the products that interest you – I use and recommend all those listed, but I always recommend reading the reviews.

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Kelsey Ramirez is a Real Estate Broker in western Washington. She is also a veteran elementary school teacher, military wife, and mom to two daughters.  She is the founder of The Military Move, a military-based website to help families in the PCS process. Kelsey loves to travel, write, and create amazing content.  She has her Masters in Technology, which she uses to learn all new things digital.

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Making Sure You are Prepared For An Emergency

Emergency Preparedness

How Do I Know

I was 3 when Hurricane Hugo hit South Carolina, living in Myrtle Beach, we had to evacuate.  Hurricane Matthew last year forced us to evacuate when it was projected to be a direct hit as a Category 4. Hurricane Hugo - Being Prepared

Luckily, we did not see the devastation as it downgraded and skirted more north.

However, I did stay through Hurricane Bertha, Hurricane Gaston, Hurricane Ida, Hurricane Fran, Hurricane Irene, and Tropical Storm Sandy (which hit us on the southern end in Maryland).

I learned several key things through going through those storms that I want to share.

Search and Rescue

My husband conducted search and rescue for 8 years prior to us coming to a security unit.  I know how hard that was on him after back to back missions, so I cannot imagine how days of continuous rescues would be after watching the aftermath of Hurricane Harvey.Coast Guard Search and Rescue

Search and rescue during city wide emergencies takes the community coming together.

I was so touched and thankful for the residents of Texas at how they came together to help their neighbors.

Complete strangers, such as the Cajun Navy, came with their boats ready to step in and help local officials.

Millions around the country donated, and emergency personnel including police, fire rescue, National Guard, and the Coast Guard worked around the clock.

However, as tirelessly as they worked, there was loss of life, and I want to help lower those chances!

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Search and rescue during emergencies takes the community coming together

Planning for an Emergency

Emergencies are not always forecasted. You cannot plan for tornadoes, flash floods, or earthquakes.

However, these events can wreak havoc on homes and families.  Some people like to be spontaneous, but in this case, it’s important to have a plan for the “what-if.”

Emergency Notebook

I have a PCS (permanent change of station, for my non-military people) Notebook that has every important document I need when we move.

This serves a dual purpose because when we evacuate for storms (which can be at least once a year), I throw that notebook in my car.  Want to know what I think should be in your PCS/evacuation notebook (or want a sneak-peek into mine)? If so, enter you email below and I will immediately send you the pdf.

PCS Notebook

Home Emergency Supplies

Whether it be a hurricane, tornado, earthquake, or minor flood, these items will help if you have them on-hand.

Water is usually a commodity that people do not hoard as they are drinking it. However, having a case of water (about $2.50 for 32 bottles at Wal-Mart) can help when you are in a bind and the water is off.

However, batteries for flashlights, a first-aid kit or makeshift one (band-aids, gauze, Tylenol or Motrin, ace bandage, etc.), and cash are important.

Why cash? Because when power goes out, systems go down – and you may need that cash handy.

IF you have a rainy-day fund – I suggest at least $250. This can help if you need to get gas, food, or if you have to leave because it is so bad.

Take photos of the things in your home (all expensive things especially) and the outside of your home (as proof for your insurance company).  I have this on my portable hard drive to take if we evacuate.

Keep reading for what steps you need to take when a storm is projected to come.

Car Supplies

Do you remember seeing the images of TONS of stranded motorists in Atlanta in 2014?

Let me remind you (compliments of CNN)…

Snow Storm - Emergency Tips

Drivers were in stand still traffic, the roads became a skating rink, and cars started to become stranded. 

In the winter, you want to includes these things in case you are caught in a freak storm like this.

Be sure to have in your car:

  • Blanket and jacket/sweather (to provide warmth when you have to turn off the engine to save gas)
  • Non-perishable food (some sort of food supply to hold you over until traffic moves, ice melts, or help comes)
  • Few bottles of water
  • Pair of socks and mittens/gloves (again sustained warmth)

All of these things together can be in your trunk or behind a seat and is worth it if you find yourself in this predicament.

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Some people are spontaneous. During a storm, it is important to have a plan

When the Storm is Coming

To evacuate or to “shelter in place,” that is the question.

When a hurricane or tropical storm is headed towards you, you have an important decision to make.  Only you can make that decision for you and your family; however, let some factors guide you.

  1. Do you have small children? If yes, you may want to consider leaving as losing electricity can alter their routine. If you have ever changed bed-time, you know what I mean.
  2. Are they calling for floods? Unfortunately, southern Texas just saw what torrential rain did to their region – devastating losses for both property and life.  Are you prepared to get on your roof with pets and kids until you can be saved?
  3. Do you have a physical ailment – such as a debilitating disease, wheel-chair bound, or even pregnancy that would make leaving after the storm with unknown circumstances much harder?Emergency Preparedness
  4. Is your home classified as “unsafe” – most pre-fabricated homes or beach homes may not withstand high winds or storm surge.
  5. Are you ready to “rough” it? When Matthew hit here, while we did not get a lot of damage – the public water source was unable to handle the back-up of water flow.  Many homes got pretty stinky with back-up.

Prepare, Prepare, Prepare

You made the decision to “shelter in place.” So where do you start?

  1. High winds? Start boarding up  those windows (not taping, as this can make it worse)- you don’t want to be in your home with a Category 2+ storm with your windows busting, and debris and glass going everywhere.  Go to your nearest home improvement store.
  2. Stock up on water (at least a gallon per person a day or about a case or two per person).Emergency Prepardeness
  3. Non-perishable foods – foods that do not need refrigeration or power to cook.
  4. Fill up the washing machine and bathtub for clean water for toilets (know your plumbing – basement toilets are not always the place to go).
  5. Put water in Ziplock bags (quart size are best), Tupperware, cups, and clean trash cans.  Freeze whatever water you can fit in your freezer – place some in fridge if electricity goes out.
  6. Eat perishable food first from fridge when electricity goes out – fruit, veggies, yogurts, sandwich fixings, etc.
  7. Batteries, batteries, batteries – did I say that before?
  8. If you haven’t already – take photos of everything you do not have a receipt for. 
  9. Sandbags – put them by your front door, back door, side door, wherever you have a door, and garage.
  10. Bring all lawn furniture inside – you do not want your lawn chairs and umbrella destroying a fence, etc.
  11. Portable generators – IF you chose to purchase one – KNOW HOW TO USE IT – carbon monoxide poisoning is FATAL.
  12. Propane – after the storm, you can cook on your grill if you still do not have electricity (bring inside, but don’t use during the storm).
  13. Full tank of gas in your car (gas prices may soar after the storm).
  14. Consider a CB radio as alternate communication.
  15. Freeze a cup of water.  Place a quarter on top of it.  If you leave for any reason for an extended period, this will help you know how long you lost power.  If the quarter is frozen inside the water (an no longer on top), you may want to consider restocking your fridge and freezer.
  16. If you lose power, please strongly think about whether or not you can pay for the groceries without your insurance’s help.  Yes, they will help you if you make a claim.  However, this could cause problems down the road if you have to change your coverage.  Try to only make BIG claims.

Emergency Evacuation

This is the choice many make or are told to make (if the military requires it).

Many commands or units decide before cities to mandatory evacuate families while the member deploys out with government assets.

If you find yourself in this position, have a plan and prepare to be flexible.

Evacuation Mode

Sometimes one of the hardest decisions is to leave all of your stuff behind; however, it could also be the one thing that saves your life. Here are some tips:

  • Get your PCS/Evacuation notebook that you downloaded from up above – this is one of the most important things.
  • Search for a hotel inland (look at the projected path to determine a distance away from the storm).
  • Military members have an evacuation location.  While you do not necessarily have to go to that location, your entitlement is based on that location (keep this in mind, or look up hotels to get an average price point).
  • Be prepared for roads to be insane – pack a car charger or GPS to travel back roads.
  • Take water, snacks, travel games (small puzzles, coloring books, iPad, books) for the kids, and wear comfy clothes.
  • Keep ALL receipts.
  • Fill up your tank (if you haven’t already) before you get on the interstate.
  • Pull out cash (if you can).
  • Before you leave, pack whatever valuables that cannot be replaced (jewelry pieces, small keepsakes or family heirlooms), a portable hard drive or SD card, and enough clothes for a week.
  • Have contact information for your ombudsman or family members. Emergency Prepardness

If you are military, read this article (I am actually quoted in it) from Military.com on entitlement information (or how to get paid for leaving).

Have you had to evacuate? Tell us your experience in the comments below, and be sure to download my PCS notebook!

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Kelsey Ramirez

About the Author

Kelsey Ramirez is a Real Estate Broker in western Washington. She is also a veteran elementary school teacher, military wife, and mom to two daughters.  She is the founder of The Military Move, a military-based website to help families in the PCS process. Kelsey loves to travel, write, and create amazing content.  She has her Masters in Technology, which she uses to learn all new things digital.

With three decades of military support, Kelsey’s mission is to help new and existing military families in their unique adventures through all military topics including PCSing, budgeting, school choice and rights, housing, and especially just being a military spouse.

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Did You Know This About SGLI

What's the big deal about SGLI

As many know, I recently had another addition to our family. Naturally for me, that meant I needed to update my life insurance policy to add my daughter and seek out more coverage. This started to get me thinking about my husband’s SGLI (as it is his only life insurance policy).

Do you know all the facts about SGLI (Servicemembers Group Life Insurance)?

The Basics on SGLI

One thing as a young adult that many of us overlook is life insurance. However, if you have a family or your active duty member is the sole provider (or perhaps a main contributor), you want to prepare for the absolute worst case scenario. The military offers SGLI (which ALL members should take in my opinion because it’s dirt cheap for the amount of protection is covers).

 Let’s talk about why this is important.

Family and SGLI

Eligibility

Service members of all five branches (Air Force, Army, Coast Guard, Marines, and Navy) are automatically eligible for full coverage. This is great because after passing all the necessary medical exams just to get into the service, they do not have to do anything else to receive coverage – unlike outside coverage providers.

SGLI Coverage

The amount of coverage is up to $400,000 (or as little as $50,000 and up in $50k increments).

What does this mean for your monthly paycheck?

For $50,000 – it is $3.50 (your daily cup of coffee).
For $400,000 – it is $28.00 (one family meal to a fast food restaurant).

Why take $400,000? Mortgage, bills, and college tuition to name a few.

Now while many spouses already know about SGLI, you may not realize that this insurance does not follow your Active Duty member out of service. It only is covered up to 120 days after separation, unless the member becomes disabled. In that circumstance, they can apply for a 2-year extension.

It is very important for the service member to take advantage of VGLI (Veterans Group Life Insurance) within 120 to 240 days after separation. If they do, they do not have to answer additional medical questions which could increase your premiums A LOT! medical equipment

Let me explain – most people go into the service around 18-21 years of age. They are healthy and in good shape. Fast forward 20 years to retirement, now you are 40 years old, marriage and baby weight has set in, working out isn’t the top priority, etc. Outside life insurance increases rates for each year of age – which is why it is important for you – SPOUSE – to get your coverage earlier rather than later. That health questionnaire could be the difference between premium rates and most people are healthier earlier in life!

VGLI is an excellent option for retired or separated members that want to continue their life insurance. Since the age of the member has increased – the rates will increase too. You can check those rates here. A $400,000 policy will cost between $68-88 per month for someone in their 40’s and will increase over time, whereas a $100,000 policy will cost $17-22 per month for the same person.

Why VGLI?

Since rates increase with age, rates can change based on gender, health, and lifestyle choices. When you rollover the SGLI to VGLI – your rates are based on age only. For those that use tobacco products – this is important because it will be very difficult to find a plan that compares with similar rates. Additionally, if you sign up within the allotted window, they will not give you a medical exam or investigate your health. You will not find this for most policies.

grandparents holding babyI can tell you that I was just asked simple health questions that included whether I use tobacco products and whether or not I am under the care of a physician for certain medical conditions or PTSD. If any of these apply to you, this is another reason to consider rolling your plan over.

Additional Coverage

One thing I wanted to ensure was that I had enough coverage on myself in case something happened to me. For the active duty member, you may find that $400,000 is not enough – you have a larger mortgage, multiple kids, etc. You can layer your coverage with outside coverage from USAA (I have mine through them and they are a great policy), MetLife, New York Life, or even your bank or insurance company may offer them.SGLI Information

To layer coverage, you will need to have a medical exam done to determine what premium you will pay. If the service member uses tobacco products, this is a HUGE factor on why they should NOT decline SGLI – because the premiums are through the metaphorical roof!! For real, not joking! I suggest purchasing a policy the earlier the better due to premiums and health changes.

End Thoughts

The whole point of life insurance is to ensure that your family is taken care of in the event that something happens to you or your spouse. This is not professional advice, just advice from one military spouse and mom. Speak with a professional about your options that are best for your family.

If you found this advice, or any of my advice helpful, please consider buying from one of my affiliates at no additional cost to you and supporting The Military Move. When you click and make a purchase within 24 hours (at no additional charge), we receive a small donation. Thank you!

Kelsey Ramirez

About the Author

Kelsey Ramirez is a Real Estate Broker in western Washington. She is also a veteran elementary school teacher, military wife, and mom to two daughters.  She is the founder of The Military Move, a military-based website to help families in the PCS process. Kelsey loves to travel, write, and create amazing content.  She has her Masters in Technology, which she uses to learn all new things digital.

With three decades of military support, Kelsey’s mission is to help new and existing military families in their unique adventures through all military topics including PCSing, budgeting, school choice and rights, housing, and especially just being a military spouse.

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