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Must-Know Acronyms for Military Relocations

August 14, 2023 No Comments

When dealing with military relocations, understanding the various acronyms used in the process can be crucial. Here are some must-know acronyms related to military relocations:

PCS: Permanent Change of Station – This refers to the official relocation of a military member and their family to a new duty station.
TDY: Temporary Duty – A short-term assignment away from a military member’s permanent duty station.
CONUS: Continental United States – Refers to locations within the contiguous 48 states.
OCONUS: Outside Continental United States – Refers to locations outside the contiguous 48 states, including overseas assignments.
BAH: Basic Allowance for Housing – A monetary allowance provided to military members to cover housing costs when government housing is not available.
POV: Personally Owned Vehicle – A military member’s private vehicle.
TMO: Transportation Management Office – The office responsible for coordinating the transportation of household goods and personal effects during a relocation.
HHG: Household Goods – The belongings and personal items of a military member and their family that are transported during a relocation.
DITY/DITY Move: Do-It-Yourself Move – When a military member chooses to personally manage the packing, transportation, and unpacking of their belongings during a relocation and is eligible for reimbursement.
PPM: Personally Procured Move – Another acronym for a DITY move, where the military member arranges and pays for their own move and can be reimbursed by the government.

AHRN: Automated Housing Referral Network – An online resource that helps military members find suitable housing at their new duty station.
LES: Leave and Earnings Statement – A document that outlines a military member’s pay and deductions.
DEERS: Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System – The system that verifies the eligibility of family members for military benefits, including healthcare.
PCS Orders: The official documentation that outlines a military member’s relocation instructions, including destination, reporting dates, and other relevant details.
COLA: Cost of Living Allowance – An additional payment provided to military members stationed in high-cost areas to help offset the increased living expenses.
JTR: Joint Travel Regulations – The document that provides guidelines and regulations for military travel and relocation, including allowances and reimbursements.
POV Storage: Personally Owned Vehicle Storage – Temporary storage for a military member’s vehicle during a relocation.
CNA: Customer Notification Assistance – The process of notifying various organizations and agencies about a change in address during a relocation.
EFMP: Exceptional Family Member Program – A program that provides support and resources to military families with special medical or educational needs.
MWR: Morale, Welfare, and Recreation – Programs and services provided to enhance the quality of life for military members and their families during relocations.

Understanding these acronyms can help make the military relocation process smoother and less confusing. Keep in mind that military terminology can evolve over time, so it’s always a good idea to verify any changes with official sources.

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Making Successful Moves with Pets

April 20, 2019 No Comments

I volunteer at an animal shelter and a frequent reason for owners surrendering their animals is they are moving, and they feel it is too difficult to take their pets.

We always took our pets with us when we moved, so I needed help understanding the problem. So, I asked a group of military wives to assist me to determine if a “How To” article would help or if moving is an excuse to not have a pet. Most thought it was an excuse, but there were some valid points made for not taking pets on a move. Below I provide I tips on how to move with an animal.

I would like to extend a thank you to the Kings Bay Military Wives Group on Facebook for helping me with this article.

We have made many moves with pets, so I thought I would share how we did it. I added some tips and links as well.

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Welcoming Pooky Home

My husband Michael and I got married when he was stationed at Pearl Harbor Navy Base. It was my introduction to military life. We had to wait until we moved to base housing, as our first apartment didn’t allow pets.

We went to the Humane Society in Honolulu and looked for our new dog. We found this little guy who had just come in. He came to the gate, but, wasn’t barking, he just wagged his tail shyly while cowering in the corner, terrified. We went to the desk and they told us he had to stay on stray hold for a few more days, and we should call on the last day to see if he was still there. We did, and he was.

We named him Pooky after Garfield’s Teddy Bear. Pooky was a love, he chewed on our stuff, he ran off from time to time, and had his own crazy character. But, mostly, he gave us so much love.

Our Move with Pooky

When it was time to move we arranged his travel with the airline and bought him a travel cage. Did I mention that we had a baby eight months after we got him and is now a little over a year old? Yes, we had a toddler, a dog and all our belongings. We were going from Hawaii to Washington State, in November.

We made sure our hotel was pet friendly ,and we had gotten a referral to some old Navy housing that did accept pets.

We got our household goods and unpacked, but it was the holidays and as typical military families do, we went to visit family for Thanksgiving. The four of us, my husband, our son, Pooky and me were back on a plane for the visit. That was our first move with a pet.

The next one came when we went from Washington to Georgia. By this time, we had a toddler and a baby. Given the personality of the boys and the length of the trip, we thought taking the dog in the car with us would be tough. We called the airlines, and for a small fee they would ship Pooky solo, if we had someone pick him up. Our family held onto him until we could get there.

We enjoyed our Christmas with the family, but we then had to find a pet friendly place at our new base. It was a brand-new base and there wasn’t much housing on or off base, and it was harder to rent with a pet, so we bought our first house. That was Pooky’s last move with us, but he did take some trips. When Pooky crossed the Rainbow Bridge we got our next shelter animal.

We went to the base and found a sweet little girl named Snowy. Snowy was a lively two-year-old Beagle mix. She was also a known runner and who could blame her, she was two and had already been passed between four families due to, you guessed it; moving. The poor girl had never known stability with a family. That effects animals as much as it would affect a child passed between foster homes.

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Our Journey with Snowy

A few years after we got Snowy it was time to move back to the West Coast. This time my husband went ahead of us. He found a temporary apartment that was pet friendly while we waited for our Navy housing to be ready. Once in, we put up a fence for Snowy to have her own free space and took her on many trips in the car to see the mountains of Washington and the great Northwest.

Our next move was when my husband retired from the Navy and we had to find civilian housing that was pet friendly. It was more challenging, but we did it.

When you get a pet, they are a part of your home and household and just as with any family member, you find a way to make the relationship work no matter what happens. Advanced planning is essential.

We still travel a lot with our pets. it is work but they are worth it. To us, they are part of our family, a gilded member, and dogs as well as cats are social animals, they become part of a “pack”, whether human or of their own kind, and are loyal to that, and will protect it’s other members and they are affected as much by loss of that pack or any member of it, as much as you or I would be affected by the loss of a spouse or child, they feel that.

Why do you think they are so happy when one returns from work, or a trip and they have been home alone, even if only for a few minutes?

Moving Tips with Pets

Below find some tips and links to help with making your trip or move with your pet less stressful:

Research your new location as soon as you know you will be moving. You need to find out how the new home works for all the members of your family. Schools and Doctors for the kids, employment for the adults, breed restrictions and veterinarians for the pets.

If you find you are moving to an area where there are breed restrictions, you need to be aware of this before you go. (The ridiculousness of these rules is a whole other article.) Make sure where you live accepts the pet you have or will get, make sure your pet will fit into your living situation. A cat or a small dog will probably work better in a two-bedroom apartment with no yard rather than a Lab or Great Dane.

These are simple steps that will help avoid heartache and headache.

At this point you may have to make some tough choices. There are some circumstances under which it may be in the pet’s best interest to live with someone else rather than making the move. You may want to check out Pets for Patriots as a possible place for your pet.

I am not suggesting anyone shirk their responsibilities but putting a sixteen-year-old dog or cat into a long quarantine may not be in the pet’s best interest. We did rehome two animals for what we thought would be in their best interests.

In both cases. we made sure they went to trustworthy families. The second one only lasted six months, and we got him back. Pooky was part Husky. They are runners, and when he kept running off we thought he would be happier at my parent’s house in the country. My folks realized he missed us and brought him back, that was the last time we tried “re-homing.”

It would be very hard on me, now, to find a new home for my pets, and I think I would prefer not to move if I couldn’t take my pets, they are our family and you don’t just abandon your family. But the US military doesn’t always have that as an option, and when the orders have you going overseas you need to know and obey that county’s rules.

The Trip Itself

For the trip itself this depends on whether you are driving or flying. If you are flying, you will need to pick an airline that will allow your pets to fly with you. Find out the requirements and procedures and talk to your vet before the trip, they often prescribe a mild sedative you can give your pet before their flight to ease their anxiety.

You can imagine it’s very traumatic for them to be separated from people they know, trust, and love. Then they are trapped in a cage on a noisy, scary plane ride. Most people are nervous about flying, and we understand what is going on. Image what it’s like for the pet who has no idea what is going on!

I know we have had some horror stories in the news about airlines and lost pets. Let’s remember, something only makes the news if it is unusual. I believe most airlines get it right more than they do wrong. Here are a few airlines that take pets; these allow pets in the cabin.

If you are going by train, check the rules just as you would for the airline. If you are traveling in the car with a pet, remember, they need a break just as you do.

Plan to stop at places where they can safely stretch their legs and play, just like you would for the kids. Rest areas have a place for pets and many hotels welcome your pet.

Bring their familiar items like their crate or bed, some toys and treats. These will make Max or Fluffy feel more at home.

If you have a more unusual pet like a pig or a snake you will have to do a little more checking to see what hotels and rest areas allow.

Owning pets is a privilege and a responsibility. You have a living friend that is close by and greets you at the door with enthusiasm, no matter what mood you are in or what you are dressed like. It is a relationship like no other.

They are here for a short time and trust me, when that friend leaves you miss them. Make the effort to keep them for as long as you can, but if you must, also make sure they find a loving, safe new home.

About the Author

Lisa lives with her retired US Navy Submariner husband in South Georgia. She is a former homeschool mom of two active boys who are now adults. She volunteers at an animal shelter. She writes children’s educational books as well as articles for adults.

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Military Travel Discounts

December 27, 2018 1 Comment

A growing number of businesses in the travel industry honor U.S. service women and men by providing them with some pretty outstanding military travel discounts.

What is presented here is only a sampling of what currently is available from some of the major players in the travel industry when it comes to discounters for military service personnel.

Keep in mind that oftentimes these companies not only have discounts for military service women and men currently on active duty but they also have programs for vets as well.

Sandals

Sandals is a travel industry leader when it comes to all-inclusive travel packages. Sandals resorts are located at luxurious tropical destinations.

At this time, Sandals is offering military service personnel with an across the board benefit. Active military service women and men get 10 percent off of any Sandals package. This discount applies to those packages that are already discounted.

In addition to a discount on all Sandals packages, different Sandals destinations oftentimes have special perks available for military service personnel. The company publicizes its ongoing commitment to thanking our troops for their service to our nation.

Norwegian Cruise Lines

Norwegian Cruise Lines is a travel industry leader when it comes to cruises. Norwegian Cruise Lines is also committed to honoring out troops.

The company offers active military service personnel with an array of different discounts on its multitude of cruises each year. Benefits include discounts on nearly every cruise the company offers throughout the course of any given year.

Norwegian Cruise Lines offers military service personnel added on-board benefits as well. These benefits for military service women and men and their families are in addition to discounts on cruise prices.

These different perks and benefits vary from one cruise to another.

Westgate Resorts

Westgate Resorts has consistently been dedicated to supporting the men and women who serve our nation in the armed services. Westgate Resorts rightly refers to these brave people as “our nation’s greatest heroes.”

Westgate Resorts offers a special discount packager to all military service personnel. Men and women from the U.S. armed forces receive special 10 percent military travel discount at any Westgate property.

The Westgate Resort discount program is one of the easiest to access and use in the travel industry. All a person needs to is make note that he or she is a member of the armed services when making a reservation and the discount automatically is applied. At the time of check-in, a service member need only present his or her military ID.

All Westgate Resort properties participate in the military discount program. Westgate has spectacular five-star resorts located across the United States.

AARP

AARP is well-known for the array of discounts offered to its members. Veterans are not forgotten by the AARP as the organization offers many specialized programs for vets and their families. These include access to a variety of travel discounts.

There are AARP members who are still on active duty. As a result, the organization has additional discount travel benefits for men and women on active duty as well, benefits that extend to their families.

Expedia

Expedia is one of the largest comprehensive online travel services in operation today. Expedia provides a full spectrum of travel services, including booking air travel, hotel rooms, and so forth.

Expedia is also home to an array of travel bargains available in all sectors. Through Expedia, members of the military service can access an array of different types of travel discounts. These discounts include everything from airfare to lodgings and other travel related benefits.

Disney Resorts and Cruises

Over the course of many years, the Disney Company has been highly supportive of women and men in uniform. This remains the case today, including when it comes to special deals available from Disney at its resorts and on its cruises.

Members of the military service can obtain discounts for stays at any of the many Disney resort properties in the United States and elsewhere around the world. This includes discounts on lodging, admission to attractions, and many other offerings at a Disney resort property. A person on active duty, and his or her family, can also receive discounts on Disney package vacations. Want to see how one family was able to enjoy Disney on a budget? Click here.

In addition to discounts at resorts, Disney also offers military benefits on its cruises as well. Members of the military forces can obtain healthy discounts on the prices of cruise packages.

Many other enterprises in the travel industry offer discounts, special packages, and other benefits to military service personnel. When a member of the armed forces is planning a trip, it is always wise to ask what discounts or benefits may be available to a service member.

Wyndham Armed Forces Vacation Club

In order to honor men and women in the military service, Wyndham created the Armed Forces Vacation Club. The Armed Forces Vacation Club is open to all active members of the military branches.

One of the unique benefits offered via the Armed Forces Vacation Club is special access to Space-A stays. Space-A allows people, including families, rental options at travel destinations.

Military service personnel have access to $349 for weeklong Space-A stays in rental properties at different locations across the country. This truly represents one of the most affordable lodging options in the industry.

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The Best Hotels for Military Families with Pets

June 21, 2018 3 Comments

We just completed our 9 day (turned 10 day) cross country move from Georgia to Washington. There was a lot of prep work and a lot of lessons learned along the way.

For the most part, our hotels were great and one was, well…not the best!

However, everywhere we stayed accommodated dogs for a reasonable price with some preparation beforehand.

Making Cross Country Travel Plans

If you read any of my social media posts about our crazy cross country trip, you will know that we had quite the adventure.

On day 3 of our adventure, we had to spend an extra night in Texas, and I spent 2 hours calling 6 hotels and rescheduling our entire trip.

Most hotels kept us locked at our original rates, and a few changed it to match their current daily rate.

So as a military family (or any family that meets challenges on the road), you want a hotel that is flexible.

When you are traveling – there are a number of things you want to plan.

Create a travel plan. I used Google Maps and put in the starting and final location.

Remember that traveling with children and pets will add to your travel time.

Also, if you are driving a moving truck – you will need to account for the moving truck.

When we went through the Rockies, my husband could only go 40mph climbing those mountains.

Plan for multiple breaks.

Decide on your route. I chose locations that were about 4-6 hours from each other.

When I chose my locations, I did it thinking that we would need to add an additional 90 minutes to fuel, grab food, and use the restroom.

I did this by looking at the map and gauging how far apart each location was.

I started moving the map to find towns that would fit the time span, had a decent selection of hotels, and was outside of downtown major cities.

This is why Google Maps works perfectly (it shows distance and time between two points).

You can choose your route however you please – quickest route, sightseeing route, family route, etc.

I have always wanted to see Colorado. So we planned our trip around that.

It was well worth it!

Start booking hotel reservations. Be sure to have a calendar of your dates. I used Expedia to look at hotels in an area.

When I started making plans, I had my Google Calendar out (hard copy works great here if you use one).

I jotted down each location that was expected for each day. As you saw from above, I started playing with towns close to each other on the map based on the hotel selection.

I would check out the hotels in each place based on our budget and user reviews and pictures.

For me, safety and convenience was key. I wanted to make sure it wasn’t too remote nor did I want it right off the interstate.

I would take the address of the hotel and Google it, then look at the street view of the maps to see what was around it.

Surprisingly, I made a lot of decisions this way. Especially when the price point was similar.

We also avoided big cities like Dallas and New Orleans and opted to stay right outside to avoid the traffic.

Book the hotel by calling them individually and asking for a military rate. I saved tons this way and sometimes got an upgrade.

So even though I used a travel website to look for hotels around an area (and as a way to know where to stop), I did not make the reservations this way.

Get on the phone with each hotel and ask them for a military rate (you could even say that you are traveling on orders).

Do not call the number on the travel sites though, as this is THEIR call center to make reservations.

I google the hotel (based on the address given on the travel site) and on the right side of the screen, it will give the map, phone number, and address.

Call that number!

I paid on average $20 cheaper than any listed price.

Also, be sure to ask the hotel if they can accommodate your moving truck size.

This was a problem at one of the hotels we stayed at, but luckily they owned a sister hotel that let us park there.

We loved staying at the hotel above – if you are in the Colorado Springs area, give it a try. Click here for their website.

Write down your confirmation numbers (I had mine in a small notebook I carried with me in my purse) and ask them to email you a copy.

After speaking to the front desk about your reservation, be sure to ask them them for your confirmation number.

You should also get them to email it to you and go ahead and print out that copy.

Print out your confirmations and put them in your PCS notebook.

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Now see the best hotels here for traveling with pets.

We stayed at a Sheraton, two La Quinta’s, an Extended Stay, two Colorado resorts, two Best Western Plus’, and a Holiday Inn Express.

So which hotel was the best for the budget?

La Quinta was the only hotel we consistently found to have $0 pet fee.

That’s right, nada!

Most of their hotels are pet friendly.

As long as Starsky and Hutch don’t make a mess or damage the room, you will not incur any additional costs.

Most of the pet fees are either pet pet, per day, or per accommodation (per room for length of stay).

Be sure to ask!

Many of the fees ranged from $10 to $50 depending on the hotel we stayed at.

Resorts are typically more expensive , so keep that in mind.

If you have dogs that are barkers, and you planned on sightseeing, you may want to look into a doggie daycare as the hotel can ask you to leave.

Other Helpful Tips

If you are traveling or in the middle of a big move, don’t forget quarters for laundry. Be sure to pack a laundry bag. We found that after about day 6, we just wanted to have some clean extra clothes.
Most hotels with pools have complimentary towels at the pool, so no need to waste your bath towels.
When you book your reservations, be sure to give them any accommodations you would prefer (ground floor, near ice machines, near stairs/elevators, etc.).

About the Author

Kelsey Ramirez is a Real Estate Broker in western Washington. She is also a veteran elementary school teacher, military wife, and mom to two daughters. She is the founder of The Military Move, a military-based website to help families in the PCS process. Kelsey loves to travel, write, and create amazing content. She has her Masters in Technology, which she uses to learn all new things digital.

With three decades of military support, Kelsey’s mission is to help new and existing military families in their unique adventures through all military topics including PCSing, budgeting, school choice and rights, housing, and especially just being a military spouse.

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Businesses You Can Run Successfully While Traveling

May 2, 2018 No Comments

You may be at a juncture in your life at which you would like to travel a bit more than you’ve been able to do historically. This desire may be coupled with the fact that you’re also interested in working for yourself.

With the advent of these two desires, you want to identify a business that you can successfully pursue while traveling.

Through the list of possible businesses you can run online, you may find something that you think is perfect for you.

On the other hand, this list of potential business options may actually provide you food for thought from which you may be able to come up with your own business idea that is ideal for a person who is traveling.

Freelance Writer

A number of writers have found that they can successfully wed freelancing with different types of travel. This doesn’t mean that the write about travel. In fact, there isn’t any limitation on the topics or types of writing pursued when on the road.

Thanks to this being the digital age, freelance writing can be done anywhere and at any time.

Noting that, if you elect to travel and write, you should develop a strategy in which you set aside specific time each day in which to write.

Even when you are on the road, you can maintain a disciplined writing practice that makes it possible for you to earn money freelancing while traveling.

Web Design

Another business you can effectively run while traveling is web design. Armed with a laptop or notebook, and a solid internet connection, you really can pursue a web design business from anywhere.

As is the case with freelance writing, when it comes to web design while traveling, you should schedule out specific time each day to work.

Taking this approach ensures that you will make progress on behalf of your clients no matter where you happen to be at any given time.

As an aside, by taking to the road, you may have the opportunity to connect with other web designers.

Through this interaction, you may come up with some dynamic new web design ideas that you would not have been able to glean if you worked from a constant home base.

Consulting Business

The moniker consulting business is a broad, diffuse term. Understanding the vague general nature of saying your going to run a consulting business while you travel, there are a myriad of consulting options that you truly can embark upon while you travel.

Consulting comes in many different forms. If you have some sort of specialization of rather unique talent or skillset, you may be able to transform that into a consulting business.

In this day and age, a great deal of consulting relies upon digital and online resources. You can provide consulting assistance by taking advantage of digital technology.

You may not have to often meet face to face with your clients. This reality makes pairing a consulting business with travel a natural combination.

Operate an Online Retail Business

If you want to travel and earn a living at the same time, consider setting up some type of online retail business.

The doors are wide open as to what a person can do when it comes to an online retail business. For example, such a business can sell items you create. Such an enterprise can market products produced by another enterprise.

In the final analysis, what you do for an online business is only limited by your creativity.

As an aside, thanks to drop shipping, depending on the type of online retail business you create, you won’t have to worry about shipping when a purchase is made. This is particularly possible if you sell goods produced by someone else.

On the other hand, you can also arrange for drop shipping for the point at which your own creations are manufactured.

Online Instructor

An ever growing segment of the population is turning to the internet when it comes to learning and educational opportunities. Another idea you should bear in mind is providing some type of online instruction that you can provide while traveling.

This type of online instruction can include everything from tutoring to different types of classes provided by various schools or online educational programs.

You will need to work your travels around your class or teaching times.

However, as was noted before, not matter the type of business you establish, you will want to schedule business matters first and then work your travel agenda around that.

About the Author

Jessica Kane is a professional blogger who focuses on personal finance and other money matters. She currently writes for Checkworks.com, where you can get personal checks and business checks.

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The Best Tips for Military Families at Disney

April 10, 2018 No Comments

Disney World is one of the most magical places on Earth. From the smells, the treats, the rides, the characters, and the smiling and friendly staff, Disney is a favorite vacation location for us.

Want to know how we did Disney in a week for less than $2,500 for a family of 4 (at the time it was 3 adults, both parents, a grandparent, and 1 child)? I will share my budget and tips for how we made amazing memories in the happiest place on earth!

We love Disney so much, my daughter and I have been 4x in the last two years with a combination of different family members and friends.

Buy Military Tickets

We bought Military Tickets through the ITT office at our local base. The great part of this was that we plugged this into the MyDisney app and were able to order our Magic Bands ahead of time.

This also let us choose our Fast Passes, which saves you major time.

You can get these tickets also at Shades of Green; however, if you are not staying there – plan to get there, park, go in, stand in line, buy tickets, etc.

I do not recommend this if you plan on going to the parks the first day you get there – as this is wasting valuable time.

You can also get military rates at the park, but you will pay taxes on it.

One exception is the Florida Resident Tickets. If the member has a home of record in Florida, this can be a cheap option as well.

Call Disney Reservations

We did not stay at Shades of Green. We went during Spring Break – one of the busiest times of year.

They were completely booked.

However, we still stayed on the grounds.

Staying on the grounds means you don’t have to pay for transportation or parking at the gate ($20 per park).

By calling Disney, they will give you military rates (usually up to 40% depending on the class of hotel) on your stay.

When you call, they will ask you if you prefer Value, Moderate, or Deluxe rooms and will find you the cheapest resort with availability.

My daughter was into Disney movies at the time so we chose the Disney All-Star Movie Resort – we got it for less than a $100 a night (about $94).

On another note, we also stayed in Coronado Springs during our Christmas stay and got a great rate ($120) because they were doing construction – which we did not care because we were in the park.

They gave us these cool pins as well. If you, or child, collects pins – these were a fun addition that you can’t buy at the shops or kiosks.

Bring Your Own Food

When you can, bring your own food. We chose not to do the dining plan.

BUT, we still ate on the grounds every day.

We even had breakfast at Be Our Guest (the Beauty and the Beast themed restaurant), and several other quick service Disney restaurants.

However, this area we could save money by bringing food with us. We were within driving distance, so we could use this to our advantage.

We bought food from the store that we could supplement for snacks and mostly breakfast.

If your room has a full freezer/fridge – take advantage of frozen breakfast foods, for example.

Cereals, croissants, pastries, and bagels are great for some breakfast meals where you do not have to pay in the park.

We also brought tons of snacks in our backpacks (Sun Chips, packets of nuts, Motts gummies, really any snack food that doesn’t melt in the HOT Florida sun! This saved us from buying tons of ice cream, popcorn, and pretzels.

Bring a Backpack

A backpack can serve as a diaper bag for young children, but it also helps with older children too.

If they are old enough, they can carry their own string back pack (like this one).

We carried bottled water (we brought a case with us) in our backpack as bottled water is about $4.00 a bottle in the park (obviously, tap water is free, or go to Starbucks – they give you free water).

We stuck all of our snacks in there as well.

Backpacks are also a great place for holding ALL the things that will occupy your time in the long lines (should you go during a high season time).

Prepare for Lines, Heat, and Rain

Long lines in peak season means bored children.

Many rides have entertaining features, but there are some that well, are less thrilling.

Bring things to occupy their time.

We brought bubbles, stickers and a notebook, and a cheap digital camera.

It is hot in Florida – of course. You can fall victim to the heat. Be sure to pack sunscreen and these cool mini-spray fans.

We each had one, which are powered on batteries – and could mist ourselves whenever, wherever.

Also prepare by bringing ponchos. Ponchos in Disney World are much more expensive. Get yours here.

It is Florida and can rain at any moment – be prepared for it! Usually when it rains, the parks clear out, so use that time to jump in line for rides.

Check out this Disney Crowd Calendar from Touring Plans here to help you plan.

Disney Magic

To add to the experience, we packed Disney trinkets that we found at the Dollar Tree and Walmart (coloring books, figurines, stickers, stuffed animals like Minnie/Mickey).

This limits how much you buy in the parks – which will be way more expensive.

Each night after she went to bed, we stuck a Disney item out for her to find in the morning – starting the magic each morning.

If you are driving to Disney, you can find a lot of Disney items at the neighborhood Walmarts for a great price (collectibles, t-shirts, etc.).

Our Disney Budget

Hotel Stay – $94 per night for 5 nights = $470

Tickets through ITT – 5 days @ $984 or 4 days @ $904 for 3 adults, 1 child

Food – Lunch and dinner – $30 per person per day – $600

Character Dining Experience (Breakfast) – $140

Gifts (from home) – $20

Other incidentals (snacks, gifts, parent’s Starbucks) – $280 = 4 people at 5 days – $14 per person per day

Grand Total – $2,494

Can you spend more? Of course! Did we experience Disney on this budget? Most definitely! See some of my pro tips below!

Other Fabulous Tips

Umbrella Strollers

If you have a child under 5 – it is ideal to have a stroller of some sort. I have brought both of my strollers on different occasions.

Disney is HUGE. That is a lot of walking, no matter how many times you go back to the hotel.

Your child will be whining, your arms, shoulders, and neck will hurt from picking them up. Trust me, stick them in it and everyone will be happy!

Buy a cheap $20 umbrella stroller and take it with you.

It folds up on the buses if you stay on one of the many gorgeous properties, and when you have to do stroller parking – it takes up little room.

Not only that, but you can use it to reserve some space for the parades.

Park Hopper Tickets

When you purchase your tickets – be sure to add Park Hopper.

For Military tickets – it is usually included and well worth it.

Sometimes you want to do Animal Kingdom in the mornings and Magic Kingdom at night.

Animal Kingdom is VERY WARM especially from about March to October. So hitting it before peak sun is great.

Also, the animals tend to find shady parts to lie in during afternoon hours, which makes the Safari Ride not as enjoyable.

But there are a lot of exhibits to see neat things – and of course, I hear the new Pandora area is fabulous.

Magic Bands & Fast Passes

See that orange band on my daughter above?

Those are Magic Bands. You can get them even with ITT tickets.

They are the best technology Disney has come up with.

Your hotel room card, your Fast Pass, and your Credit Card can all be stored on this wristband.

You can select who has the Credit Card on their band (if you are worried there band may fall off). However, we never had an issue (even with 3 year old wrists).

You don’t have to carry cash with you, they just touch the Mickey and it goes straight onto your hotel bill.

It also stores your Fast Passes – which you MUST do if you want to maximize your time.

Fast Pass reservations can be made up to 60 days in advance.

Popular rides (Peter Pan, Splash Mountain, Seven Dwarfs Mine Train, Space Mountain) go quick, so make sure to book them.

You can also book passes to see characters.

She loved seeing all the princesses and her favorite Disney Jr characters (they are at Hollywood Studios).

Once you use your 3 Fast Passes you can get more that day (but generally, it is what is leftover).

Get the MyDisney App

If you have a Smartphone – you MUST have the MyDisney App.

Download it on every adult phone.

It has maps of the parks, wait times of every ride and character experience, times for the parades, and park hours.

You can also link your reservations so that you have access to your Fast Pass reservations.

Experience Disney During the Holidays

This is not a budget tip, but more of a confirmation if you are asking yourself this question. Should we do a special event?

Disney World has different special events throughout the year.

No-So-Scary Halloween

Very Merry Christmas Party

Star Wars Galactic Nights

We took a special trip last year to Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party. It was an additional expense, but we loved it.

You get in at 4pm and experience Magic Kingdom decorated for Christmas.

Why did we enjoy this?

Limited crowds – so lines were much shorter.

Free goodies. They have the BEST Snickerdoodle cookies and hot chocolate. Seriously!

Characters are out in the park, and there is a short line to see them.

Disney Springs has Christmas trees decorated with all the major movie themes. Great to see them in the morning and go to the park in the evening.

Fireworks In Magic Kingdom

One of the best experiences at the Magic Kingdom is their nightly fireworks.

However, it is BEYOND crowded.

Everyone crowds to main street or the circular area right in front of the castle about 30-45 minutes before it starts.

However, we found a great area to see the fireworks as our own little secret (especially if you have seen the show before).

If you go to Adventureland, find the Swiss Family Treehouse. The bottom has a great view as well as the top (and it was filled with 3 families) – much more enjoyable.

However, you don’t get to see Tinkerbell fly.

If you HAVE seen the fireworks – this is the time when the busiest rides have hardly any wait – take advantage.

Go to Epcot

I hear the question asked, “If we can’t do all of the parks, which one should we drop?”

Do not choose Epcot to drop – if you have small children.

Here is why…

Epcot is filled with many countries – all with food and places to sit. You know what kids love? FOOD!

Not only that, but there are some very fun rides at Epcot.

The “Golf Ball” at Epcot was one of my daughter’s favorite rides – it is slow, but it takes them on a neat journey through time.

You also have the Frozen ride, Soarin™, The Land – which you ride on a slow moving boat and see all the hydroponics and greenhouses they have, the boat in Mexico (with Donald Duck), Finding Nemo (and the aquarium after it), Fast Track, and Mission Space.

If nothing else, hit it on it’s late hour days and do a 1/2 day with your Disney Park Hopper.

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Tips When Traveling With Your Infant

February 15, 2018 No Comments

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of 1 Natural Way, a TRICARE breast pump provider. All opinions are entirely my own. If you have questions about my full disclosure, click here.

When I was 19, I traveled to Spain with my family for a family vacation. The first leg was with my step-mother and two-year-old sister from Atlanta to England. When we went to de-board the plane, my sister fell out right there in the aisle – full out wailing, and complete humiliation for me!

My stepmother walked right off the plane.

And there I was. Like a cat herder – railing it in.

If that is not natural birth control, I don’t know what is.

I vowed that I would do everything I could to have a plan with my own children. Yes, I know you are laughing because plans usually go out the window with children.

However, traveling seems to go smoother when we can plan – no matter what happens after that.

Luckily, I have traveled with both of my children as infants and luckily learned some things along the way.

1. Have an FAA Approved Car Seat

If you are flying when traveling with a newborn or infant, you have two choices with the airlines, travel with the baby on your lap or purchase an extra seat.

Now I know budgets are slim, but if you can – purchase the extra seat. My father is a pilot, so I have traveled a lot.

Turbulence is unpredictable, and it can be very dangerous. Just like there are crazy drivers, well there are crazy pockets of air up there.

If baby is secure in an FAA approved car seat, there is no worries that you or your spouse, or even big sister (like me), has to secure baby.

2. Wear Your Baby

Another great investment is a sling or baby carrier. This gives you free hands to pull luggage, hold another child’s hand, or if you cannot buy an additional plane ticket – keep baby secure on you.

You can wear baby on an airplane, hiking, on a ferry ride, and on trains. Baby wearing has become real popular, but actually is an old tradition in many cultures.

Many find that wearing their baby when they travel allows baby to be close to the heart, which helps them stay calm and sleep while in motion – mimicking that feeling in the womb.

My oldest daughter and I were in Disney for Christmas, and I saw so many moms wearing their babies. This is a brilliant way to lose the stroller and keep baby close.

I have tried several on, and must tell you to be sure to find one that supports your back and is breathable if you are traveling somewhere hot!

3. Travel with a Breast Pump

The best part about breastfeeding is the convenience – no heating or cooling bottles, or bottles period.

However, it is unsafe to take a baby out of it’s car seat during transit.

My husband was driving us from Orlando to South Georgia, and a car next to us slammed on his brakes causing several cars to react and wreak.

In seconds, accidents can happen. The safest thing to do is stop somewhere safe, or if necessary, feed the baby while he/she is secure with a bottle.

Many airports have implemented breastfeeding rooms for you to feed/pump with privacy. This would be a handy time to use it.

Do you not have one yet? Do you need an extra one?

1 Natural Way offers a FREE popular Medela, Spectra and Kiinde brand breast pump through Tricare.

How Do I Get My Free Breast Pump?

Easy really! These 5 steps are as easy as commenting on your friend’s next post.

It takes less than 5 minutes, and your Tricare breast pump will be on its way!

It is that easy!

Step 1 – Fill out our insurance information form found here

Step 2 – Select your breast pump model (Tricare covers all models they offer)

Step 3 – Enroll in their Monthly breastfeeding accessories program (called
Resupply)

Step 4 – Provide them with a prescription or your doctor’s information, and they will obtain one for you

Step 5 – Your pump and supplies will ship right to your front door via UPS or USPS

In addition to your free breast pump, 1 Natural Way also offers breast pump accessories, compression socks and postpartum care supplies. Get yours here.

4. Backpacks Make Great Baby Bags

So I had a great weekender bag with a cute purple pattern that I could fit all my baby stuff into (actually for both kids and myself).

However, after about..oh 8 trips, I was juggling a weekender bag on my shoulder, a baby on the other (or in my front carrier), trying to hold my other child’s hand, and rolling a suitcase.

Just imagine that image – you have all seen THAT single mom traveling.

Yep, that was me!

Well, I am here to tell you that I purchased another beautiful turquoise and grey flowered backpack (just as cute), but it is SO much more functional.

I can place all of my 5 year old’s extra clothes, all my 7 month old’s essentials, bottles, a book or tablet for me, a wristlet with my ID and credit cards, and my phone. No purse, no diaper bag – my handy dandy all-in-one bag.

Also, if you do, invest in one that has multiple compartments. To stay organized, of course.

5. Have a Baby Travel Kit

Besides packing for yourself and older children, be sure to pack a travel kit (in your backpack) for baby.

Include diapers, wipes, pacifiers (if used), bottles, your Tricare breast pump, breast cover for when it allows, baby blankets (I prefer Muslin ones), baby food and spoon, teethers, and some soft baby toys.

I usually pack all bottles and baby food in a small insulated lunch box with an ice pack to keep them chilled.

What you pack will depend on the age of your newborn or infant, but be sure to include extras until you can access your baggage.

This also helps if you are traveling by car, train, or ferry.

6. Travel with Bottles

Many moms choose to wear their babies. However, many airlines expect you to take your baby out of the carrier for take-off and landing.

When you are flying, air pressure in the cabin changes during take-off and landing.

This can be irritable for babies ears.

While children and adults can chew gum, babies cannot. This is why sucking on a nipple during these two events can help alleviate that problem.

Depending on the mom, it may be easier to provide your child with your pumped milk than trying to take off the carrier.

If your baby is a bottle drinker, try to time a bottle (even if it is a small one) around take-off and landing.

If your baby breastfeeds, that breast pump from 1 Natural Way will come in handy here since you will have a bottle ready that you or your spouse (or even big sister again) can feed.

This also helps if you have just fed recently but need baby to suck to prevent popping in the ears.

Do you have any travel tips for my readers, leave it in the comments below.

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Why It’s Absolutely Fine to Stalk Your Movers

January 7, 2018 No Comments

Why I Stalk the Government Movers

There are opposing views to this idea, and that is okay! Some feel the need to stay out of the movers way and let them do their job.

But the other group feel compelled to be more “involved,” and that is perfectly okay. After all, the stuff in your home is your stuff – everything you have worked for or been gifted. You are placing that in someone else’s hands.

Let me give you some examples: When we filed an insurance claim after a hurricane hit our home – I made sure my roofer and I were there to ensure that he saw everything. When my father was having his house built, he went every week to see the work site. As a teacher, I welcomed parents in to see my method of teaching – it is their child.

There is oversight in many jobs. I don’t just walk away from a teller and trust that he/she will deposit my money because that is his/her job. So personally, I am not just going to sit on my couch while they do theirs. But that is me.

So if you are the type that “hovers,” you have the right too and should – but remember, they have a job to do so you can provide conversation while you do so to not make it so awkward.

To Feed or Not to Feed

You may be anxious to do a government move after hearing the horror stories from other military families. However, many veterans have come up with ways to show appreciation towards the movers and perhaps also woo them into being more careful with their stuff.

First, the question comes up each year in spouse groups about what to do with military movers. Should you feed them, tip them, etc.

Bridget from https://nuttyhiker.com says – “ I feed them lunch (usually pizza) and also have water’s and Gatorade as well as snacks for them.”

Diane from www.thewanderingrd.com states, “We always feed the movers lunch and provide plenty of bottled water. We typically give them some options and ask their preference. No, I don’t make them eat healthy! It’s more about pleasing them…When we lived overseas, I asked around and the convention was to provide some American “delicacies” like Coke and homemade chocolate chip cookies, which they took home to their families.”

Amy from Mehmomblog.wordpress.com says, “Our first move when the movers packed us we just got Gatorade and had bottled water available. Our budget was tight so we didn’t buy food, but they really appreciated the Gatorade. We’ve been overseas since then so we get the movers American snacks and chips they don’t have here. I always make sure there’s enough for them to take home and share with their families.”

Sybil from mamasandcoffee.com adds, “When they 1st arrive I let them know what areas to pack vs. staying with us (I try to put those items in a small closet or bathroom).”

Stalking the Government Movers

When your movers come, they will each pick a room and will start packing up your goods.

First things first, I pack ALL irreplaceable valuables in my household goods container that always travels with me. This includes all my jewelry, my laptop, my PCS notebook (which you can sign up for below to get FREE), my hard drive with thousands of family photos, cash, and any family heirlooms that I deem appropriate.

Remember, the packers are going to go through everything that is not already in a sealed box, so if you have some things you would rather not be seen – go ahead a box those ahead of time.

However, if you are going overseas – it cannot be packed as it must be inspected by the packers (so perhaps put your valuables or dirty secrets into your personal luggage).

Secondly, IF both of you can be home, great. I am not afraid to stalk my movers during government moves. Why? Because I want to make sure my stuff is being taken care of and appropriately boxed.

This IS your STUFF. Remember that.

We moved between rooms focusing on the bedrooms or rooms that had things that may “walk away.” This is uncommon, but it does happen.

Personally, I have a DITY move labeling process that I do when we move ourselves. The movers will have their process to by labeling each box (you will find stickers on things years after your moves). However, you may be able to convince them to allow you to use this common method too.

Click here for the post on my method complete with your downloadable checklist.

Transferring the Moving Boxes/Furniture

This is where my heart stops. Watching my stuff be handled.

Why?

Because this is where furniture gets dinged and scratched. I watched my $4,000 bedroom set that was our wedding gift to ourselves get 4 separate dings (1 on the outbound, 3 on the inbound).

Not to mention the walls and door frames. Yes, our drywall got so many chips from moving furniture up and down stairs. However, I stalked them by watching them. They were more careful when I was there watching it going in and out. They may not like it, but it’s MY stuff.

All your stuff will be put on a moving truck (depending on the size of your HHG, it could be with other HHG’s too), which is why I use my labeling method.

Helpful Hints to Know

Packers will pack EVERYTHING (except the no can do list).

Yes, they will pack the trash bins with trash in them – it happens – ALL THE TIME.

They will pack your dirty, smelly laundry in the laundry basket – yes, it happens!

Things Government Movers Will Not Pack

Click here to see the full downloadable PDF from the State Department.

Have experiences or comments you would like to share? Put them in the comments below.

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The Complete Moving Guide

December 30, 2017 No Comments

I have made several military moves in my lifetime. From California to South Carolina, Maryland to Georgia, I have learned a few tricks along the way to create a quick and easy complete DIY guide.

Moving can be one of the most stressful experiences for any person. Whether you are doing it yourself or having help, there are countless things that are bound to…well drive you a little nuts.

Even government moves can be stressful. It really depends on what type of person you are and what you prefer.

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Getting Prepared

I love having a plan. It helps me lower my stress and know just what I intend to do. I have created a moving checklist and how-to guide to help any first-time or veteran mover. You can download it by signing up below for FREE.

I will also give you my FREE PCS Notebook Guide to show you all the important things that I keep together. This has helped me complete all necessary things with our rentals/mortgage, registering for schools, bordering animals, and much more.

Another part of moving is making sure you have everything organized beside just your household goods. You need to have your life basically organized so that when you travel to your new location, you are ready to go.

Need to register the kids for school? No problem. Need to get your car insurance redirected? No issues.

A few weeks ago, I had to go to the DMV to get a hard copy of my car title (since I like to have it on hand). The lady was shocked at my PCS Binder and how organized I was – she even thanked me.

Guess what! I want to give it to you for FREE – just for reading because I know you will LOVE it, and it will help you complete your mover’s toolbox.

Enter you info below and it will be emailed right over to you.

Additionally, when you sign up, you will receive your PCS Expense and Budget Worksheet to help determine your costs for your DITY move.

The lady was shocked at my PCS Binder - she even thanked me.

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Government Moves

When you do a government move – ALWAYS do the counseling. Either the active member or the spouse – do not skip this.

“Why? I’m too busy!”

No, you’re not! Not for this! Make yourself available.

When you do a government move, you are giving them most if not all of your stuff. Some may get damaged or lost, and you need to know the process to file a claim to get that started.

You will have POC’s – point of contacts – you will need to save in your phone as well. It is a very detailed and drawn out process and can be the deciding point of how much money you receive.

I have an upcoming post on how to deal with government moves/movers in greater detail that you can check out.

DITY Moves

Are you doing a Do-IT-Yourself move?

Many service members like these moves because they can keep an eye on their stuff – keeping them in control. Some believe they can do it cheaper than a full government move allowing them to make some money.

I have done both moves and both have their pros and cons. Shoot me any questions you may have in the comments below.

We made a good amount of money on our DITY move and you can check out some of my tips here.

Many service members like these moves because they can keep an eye on their stuff.

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San Diego Travel Guide

August 21, 2017 14 Comments

San Diego is one of my favorite cities in the United States. I mean like #2 in my top 5. My dad often had training on Coronado Island in his F-16 back in the 90’s, and me remember my stepmother driving my sister and me in our Cadillac DeVille from Tucson, Arizona to San Diego.

We would bike all over Coronado, stop at local mom and pop places and eat ice cream, and enjoy the parks and beaches.

When my dad became a commercial pilot, I begged to go on one of his San Diego layovers. When I did go, I made him take me all over. I had some of the best cheesecake in a delightful cafe in the Gas Lamp Quarter, walked around Seaport Village, shopped in Westfield Horton Open Plaza, and even casually had a drink in the famous Top Gun Diner, which is Kansas City Barbeque.

As you start planning your trip, look over the options in the provided infographic below. These are some of the top rated restaurants, hotels, things to do, and tours. When you find what you want to do, click on my CityPASS below, and you can save up to 50%.

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San Diego Travel Guide

With a father that flys for a major airline, I am aware of travel necessities. Be sure to check my guide on travel essentials for the whole family.

Also be sure to check out the airline and airport travel tips YOU NEED in order to have a smooth trip. It will keep you up-to-date on the following:

specific airport arrival times,
baggage costs,
traveling with children, and
a way to get through security quicker.

Do you have a favorite place in San Diego that you love to visit? Tell us in the comments below!

Welcoming Pooky Home

Our Move with Pooky

Our Journey with Snowy

Moving Tips with Pets

The Trip Itself

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Sandals

Norwegian Cruise Lines

Westgate Resorts

AARP

Expedia

Disney Resorts and Cruises

Wyndham Armed Forces Vacation Club

Making Cross Country Travel Plans

Create a travel plan. I used Google Maps and put in the starting and final location.

Decide on your route. I chose locations that were about 4-6 hours from each other.

Start booking hotel reservations. Be sure to have a calendar of your dates. I used Expedia to look at hotels in an area.

Book the hotel by calling them individually and asking for a military rate. I saved tons this way and sometimes got an upgrade.

Write down your confirmation numbers (I had mine in a small notebook I carried with me in my purse) and ask them to email you a copy.

Print out your confirmations and put them in your PCS notebook.

Now see the best hotels here for traveling with pets.

Other Helpful Tips

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Buy Military Tickets

Call Disney Reservations

Bring Your Own Food

Bring a Backpack

Prepare for Lines, Heat, and Rain

Disney Magic

Our Disney Budget

Other Fabulous Tips

Umbrella Strollers

Park Hopper Tickets

Magic Bands & Fast Passes

Get the MyDisney App

Experience Disney During the Holidays

Fireworks In Magic Kingdom

Go to Epcot

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1. Have an FAA Approved Car Seat

2. Wear Your Baby

3. Travel with a Breast Pump

How Do I Get My Free Breast Pump?

4. Backpacks Make Great Baby Bags

5. Have a Baby Travel Kit

6. Travel with Bottles

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Why I Stalk the Government Movers

To Feed or Not to Feed

Stalking the Government Movers

Transferring the Moving Boxes/Furniture

Helpful Hints to Know

Things Government Movers Will Not Pack

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Getting Prepared

Get your Moving Day Checklist Here

Government Moves

DITY Moves

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San Diego Travel Guide

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